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This skill of developing Good and Healthy relationships with the other people requires to understand some of the aspects and social values of the people, although some people are born with this ability but most of the people need to learn or polish it. Having a Good social relationship fetches many benefits such as the sense of affinity, respect, support and help from others and so on. Here are 10 tips to develop and maintain a Good and healthy Relationship with the other people.
1.Self-Centered Advertisement Agency.
Don't be self-centered and never advertise your own qualities to others, it shows that neither you have concern for others nor you value them. People who are self-obsessed and self-centered can never build good and healthy relationship with the others. In addition to that, people will also mock you at your back and sometimes on your face!
2. Show Interest in others.
Show your interest in the person to whom you are talking or interacting with. Never show exceptional interest in their physical appearance or the body as it leaves, well, a weird impression.
3. Other people are humans too! Understand others.
Understand the feelings of other people too! And make them realize that you have a genuinely concern for their feelings and emotions (especially when they are violated). People don't like those who are not concerned at all about the feelings and emotions of the others.
4. Don’t take Undue Advantage.
Never take the too much advantage of others for your own purpose's sake. If you do or the consequences force you then return the favor some time (People expect a return-favor when they help someone) cause if you don't then your purpose might be fulfilled for the time being but in the future you'll be labeled as a "self-centered-bastard" and eventually people will stop helping you.
5. Be a Good Listener and let it be two-way traffic
Always listen to other people as this is a very critical aspect in developing a positive relationship. Most of the people don't listen to the others and speak one way as if they are a radio jockey. But little do they know that the very habit of them leads to mockery of them by the people. So, let it be "exchange" of thoughts not a "one-way-dump"
6. Help the one in need cause sometime you'll be the one in need
The best way to get something is to give something. Help the "other" people who are in need of your help and service and Never forget that you are also "other" for some one. So if you will help to the others, the other will also help you.
7. Talk what other people are willing to listen.
Discuss and talk on the matter which makes other people counter interact with you and show some interest or else people will not like to communicate with you. If they don't give attention or barely give any attention or make weird faces then its a sign for you that you're boring them and either you need to stop or change the topic.
8. Make the others feel that their existence means something.
Every person has a core desire for "Sense of Affinity" (see "affiliation needs") i.e. everyone has got a built-in desire of affinity, sense of belongingness and to be important to the others, so try to make them feel that they are relevant people and don't try to make them seem that their existence on Earth means nothing. (Warning: don't overdo it or else people will fall into self-obsession and pride)
9. Don’t Argue.
Don’t argue violently with people as it leaves the negative effect on the others of your communication as the people think that the Person is violent and barbaric. Be mannered, be civilized. If you need to argue then it can be done in a gentle manner too. And yeah, violent arguments reflect the barbarian within you! Oops
10. Don’t make the fun of others.
Never throw sarcasm or make fun of anyone in front of other people. Never-ever make fun of anyone's disabilities upon which nobody has control such as physical disability of hand or leg. This is totally un-manly and people will also become discontent of you. In addition to that, if you go way beyond sarcasm then you may very well sow the seed of a new enemy. Bingo!
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